Elysium Spa revisited - Dexter

I went back to Elysium to try a new masseur.

Dexter was the name of my therapist.  Dark skinned, average height around 5'4 and very lean guy, a twink.

Anyway, got into the cubicle, stripped naked and waited.  The massage did not start well.  I felt it was a bit too slow and calculated.  It was like he recently memorized the massage routine and applied on me.  An expert masseur would just glide his hands over your body like butter hehehehe

As usual, when it came time for the hand massage, he tried pushing my hand on his crotch.

He then massaged my legs and when he reached my groin area, he asked me "ato ni massage?" putting his hands close to my cock.  At first I could not hear what he was saying.  He asked for 1,000 Pesos.  Maghubo daw siya.  If he was handsome and fit, I would probably say yes but he was not.  I told him I did not bring enough money.  Just jerk me off for 500 Pesos.

When he started jerking me off, I was not really impressed.  I came but I did not really enjoyed the sensation.

Anyway, the massage including extra service was exactly 1 hour.

To my surprise, Dexter asked me if he could get his tip before I get out of the cubicle.  So while I was dressing up, he was in the cubicle, waiting for his tip.  I was pissed off. Can't he just wait outside the cubicle?

I would not recommend Dexter.  Thumbs down.

Female Therapist in Cagayan de Oro

There is a growing number of straight guys asking questions regarding female therapist in this blog.  So I am dedicating this section of the blog to you guys.

To make this page more informative and interactive, please share your experiences with us.  The name of the spa, what happened, how it happened and so on.

A new page has been created for Female Therapist.  Please visit this page at http://cdomassage.blogspot.com/2016/11/female-therapist-in-cagayan-de-oro-page.html

Check out this article at http://cdomassage.blogspot.com/p/spa-and-masseur-advice.html

This was made for male therapist but it can also be applied to female therapist.


Here is a list of spa's in Cagayan de Oro with female therapist:

Amarela (formerly Red Fern)

A. Velez corner Chaves St. - Divisoria Branch

Mobile No. 0935-2515066

Offers Thai, Swedish, Shiatsu, Filipino Hilot, Body Scrub, Home and Hotel Service 
Google Map : https://www.google.com.ph/maps/@8.4769888,124.6442663,19.75z

Amarela (formerly Red Fern)

Carmen Branch (in front of SSS)

Mobile No. 0935-2515065

Offers Thai, Swedish, Shiatsu, Filipino Hilot, Body Scrub, Home and Hotel Service

Google Map : https://www.google.com.ph/maps/@8.484854,124.6381095,19.5z

Caesar Spa

Corrales St. (in front of Regent Furniture-Trinidad Bldg.)

Offers Lingam

Google Map : https://www.google.com.ph/maps/@8.4793995,124.6469839,20.5z

Charana 

Abellanosa Street (along UCCP Church)

Google Map :  https://www.google.com.ph/maps/@8.4869356,124.6469616,19.25z

Duke Spa

Kauswagan Highway (across Hyundai and Shell)

Google Map : https://www.google.com.ph/maps/@8.497349,124.6299911,19.75z

Elysium

3rd Floor RA UY Building, 

Pabayo St. corner T. Neri St. (in front Magsaysay Park)

Mobile No. 850-4508 / 0905-8099444

Offers Swedish, Shiatsu, Thai, Hot Stones

Google Map : https://www.google.com.ph/maps/@8.4775046,124.6454771,20.25z

Emperor Spa 

Capistrano Street (in front of SaveMore)

Google Map : https://www.google.com.ph/maps/@8.4802634,124.6432966,20.25z

Fai Thai 

A. Velez St. (adjacent to Rose Pharmacy)

Tel. No. 71-4528

Offers Thai, Swedish, Shiatsu, Lymphatic, Home and Hotel Service

Google Map : https://www.google.com.ph/maps/@8.477929,124.6444206,20.25z  

Fai Thai 

Corrales St. (same building with City Saving Bank)

Tel. No.

Offers Thai, Swedish, Shiatsu, Lymphatic, Home and Hotel Service

Google Map : https://www.google.com.ph/maps/@8.4806026,124.6477868,19.5z 

Finest Thai (formerly 3K Thai)

Capistrano St. corner JR Borja St.(adjacent to LandBank)

Tel. No.

Offers Thai, Swedish, Shiatsu, Body Scrub, Home and Hotel Service

Google Map : https://www.google.com.ph/maps/@8.4797284,124.6433725,19.75z

Lumbago

Gomez corner Cruz Taal St. (adjacent to GoldCrest)

Tel. No. 0926-9923152 / 0916-9212218

Offers Whole Body, Ventosa, Lymphatic

Google Map : https://www.google.com.ph/maps/@8.477816,124.6453627,20z

Metta Spa

Abejuela St.
Offers Swedish, Shiatsu

Google Map : https://www.google.com.ph/maps/@8.4774335,124.6438605,20.75z

Senses

Vamenta Blvd.
Offers Swedish, Home and Hotel Service

Google Map : https://www.google.com.ph/maps/@8.4743196,124.6380006,19z

Senses

Gusa Highway (across Chowking-Gusa)
Offers Swedish, Home and Hotel Service

Google Map : https://www.google.com.ph/maps/@8.4796191,124.6723895,19.5z

Senses

Gomez Street
Offers Swedish, Home and Hotel Service

Google Map : https://www.google.com.ph/maps/@8.4792312,124.6430716,20.5z

Siotee

Vamenta Boulevard (just below the Pryce Plaza flyover)

Offers Swedish, Shiatsu

Google Map : https://www.google.com.ph/maps/@8.4730913,124.6358627,19.75z

Tatsujin

A. Velez corner Gomez St.

Offers  Swedish, Shiatsu

Google Map : https://www.google.com.ph/maps/@8.4802037,124.6433141,20.5z

Yiyashi 

Pabayo St. (near Casa Crystalla) 
Tel. No. 880-3398

Offers Swedish, Shiatsu, Home and Hotel Service

Google Map : https://www.google.com.ph/maps/@8.4768868,124.6451328,20.5z

Lumbago Touch Massage

Remember Moon Spa?  It is now Lumbago Touch Massage.  The spa is located near Goldcrest along Pabayo corner Cruz Taal Streets.

Their whole body massage (1 hour) is only 190 Pesos.  They offer a 4 hand massage (2 masseurs giving you a massage).  It will cost you around 550 Pesos.  They accept hotel and home service.

So I went in, asked for the whole body massage and a male therapist.  The therapist was not good looking but not that unappealing.  Okay lang, not a problem for me. When I went up and saw the cubicles and decor...oh my...it reminded me of Mahumpay.  I just wanted to redecorate the entire spa and give it a touch of gayness hahahahaha.

I was wearing my underwear, no plans for ES, I was broke :)  The massage started well, average at best.  So far so good.  I turned over and he gave my hands a massage.  Here we go....he was trying to press my hands on his crotch.  Sorry I am not falling for that trick.  Besides I am broke!  So he continued giving me a massage.  Then suddenly he sat beside me, placed my hand on his crotch and started giving my chest a massage. He was not taking NO for an answer.  I finally told him...sorry, not tonight, maybe next time?

This is getting frustrating.  Am I too gay that masseurs assume I need extra service or they just assume all male clients are gay?  Post your comments.

Lending money

I was waiting for a taxi just outside a spa and heard two people talking nearby.  It was an older gay guy and a male therapist.  

The male therapist was trying to convince his "sugar daddy" to lend him money.  He kept on talking about getting a new phone so they can communicate well.  His old phone was not working well, he could not hear the phone ringing and so on.  Bullshit!

I had my share of experience with people asking me money.  Not necessarily from male therapists but from "friends" and co-workers.  

One thing I have learned from lending money is not to expect to get paid.  When you lend money to someone, it is like giving out money from your heart.  Ayaw na ug dahum ma bayaran ka pa.

If the person pays you back, then good.  If he does not, it is expected.  You lend money because you have extra money to loose or give away.  If you do not have money and you still lend money, be careful.  Ikaw pa hinoon ang mangutang kay wala kanay kuwarta.

Fai Thai Corrales branch revisted

I have not gone to Fai Thai Divisoria or Corrales branch for a long time (almost 2 years).  Most of their therapist are only after extra service.  Instead of giving you a 1 hour massage, they cut it short and offer immediately extra service.  So I decided to stop going there.  I am not getting my moneys worth.

I decided to give Fai Thai a chance.  Its been a long time.   Maybe they have hired better masseurs.  So I went to Fai Thai Corrales branch.  Their Swedish massage is still 180 Pesos.  The massage therapist assigned to me was a tall guy around 173 cm or 5'8".  He looked well built and good looking (in the dark cubicle? hehehe).

The massage started very well.  I was quite impressed.  I was so relaxed that I almost fell asleep.  He had good hands.

When I turned over, within seconds he offered me extra service.  Seriously?!  I was so satisfied with the massage that I was not thinking of extra service.  It was disappointing.  Fai Thai has not changed at all.

Would I suggest Fai Thai Corrales branch to people?  I don't know.  I am conflicted.  The therapist was quite good but he gave me a massage for only 30 minutes ( I paid for a 1 hour massage).  Sayang.

By the way, the spa air conditioner was not working well at that time.  It was warm inside the spa.

Response to Mahumpay

This is my response to a comment posted by an "Anonymous" person who I believe is connected with Mahumpay Spa.

Pakatawa ka Anonymous? PLEASE READ MY ARTICLE AGAIN (http://cdomassage.blogspot.com/2015/08/mahumpay-spa-worst-spa-experience.html).  First of all I did NOT ask for ES, I NEVER asked for it.  I always wait for the therapist to offer it.  Kung naa, good, kung wala, okay ra.  I have said this over and over in the blog, I am after a good massage, ES is just extra, it is not a deal breaker.  If you do not know the term "not a deal breaker" go Google it.

Since we are already in the topic of ES.....FYI, I did not mention this in the article but I could clearly hear a squishing sound of a cock being masturbated or sucked in the adjacent cubicle.  Since when do you hear a squishing/pounding/stroking sound while you are being given a massage?  Also the clients at that time were mostly old gay men....go figure out what they want.

The real ISSUE here is the BEHAVIOR of your therapist who just LEFT ME in the room for several minutes without telling me that the massage service was over.  Kinsa bay tarong nga therapist nga mubuhat ana?  If you read the comments on the article, there was another person who had the same complaint.  Clearly I am not the only person who experienced this.  

You claim that Mahumpay Spa is one of the most professional spa in CDO? Was April Fools Day moved to September?  Instead of apologizing for the behavior of your therapist, you defend their mistakes.  It is quite obvious your spa is just trying to make money and not put your customers interest ahead.

Do not bother to reply to this article or post another advertisement in my blog (yes, that valentines promo or something), I will never approve it.